should l i marry him?

We all want someone who is adorable, loving,loyal and respects you ,the one who will be your life partner  one day.  When we come into any relationship  in the beginning we just want to enjoy it the whirlwind romance lead us to ignore those hidden things which are going to expose sooner or later. Here i am talking about relationships  based on trust and love you can’t break them easily  because you know what you have gone through for reaching this level . when a girl decide whom she has to marry? She herself couldn't decide it she has  to ask so many questions from herself is he the one you see as a partner? Is he deserving?  Would you ever regret for marrying him? Or would he able to fulfil all your expectations ? who knows the answer accept you. When you reached ‘that level’in a relationship  you tend to get lost in your thoughts  of marrying a guy you have been dating more than 2 years but unfortunately many of us end up getting confused and made bad decisions . when comes to marrying your dating partner we pay no heed to what actually you want in your wanna be husband as  you know  that being a boyfriend is easy but becoming a husband is totally  diverse. When you met a guy in  young age your have only one goal which is fulfilling romantic desires  we don’t bother about other things . as a women we want someone who is men not a boy that means a guy should be mature enough for marriage who can take right decisions for you who can take care of you  and who can fill those empty areas  in your life.

It ‘s is a difficult to decide who you want to marry or who is deserving?  Just pay attention to those  small things which drive you crazy for ex- if you don;t like some habits of your bf which are usually ignored by you just to make peace . Are you really going to adjust with those  bad habits which make you angry every time he repeat it ? will you again forgive him for hurting  you ? yes you can forgive him when there are chances of improvement if not so you know the answer.

Marrying someone just because he is a good lover or you have spent great time together which  you’ll never forget  is not sufficient  dear  you are going to spend rest of your life with someone you choose today so please be aware when you decide to marry your lover because he could be a great lover but there is no guarantee he will be a great husband .